Originally posted on Multiple Sclerosis News Today
Recognizing and valuing authenticity is an aspect of life I began to grasp only a few years ago. During the peak of quarantine restrictions due to COVID-19, I was forced to move back home to San Antonio from my on-campus dormitory at the University of Texas at Austin. Like many others, I had an abundance of spare time to ponder life’s meaning.
I spent a large amount of time contemplating the meaning of authenticity. According to Merriam-Webster, authenticity can be defined in numerous ways, including: “not false or imitation”; “true to one’s own personality, spirit, or character”; and “worthy of acceptance or belief as conforming to or based on fact.” But how can these definitions be applied to real life?
‘Authentically human’ coming to life
My journey with authenticity has been like a roller coaster because it can be difficult to remain true to yourself in a judgmental world. As cliché as it may sound, life is too short to constantly put on an act.
The essence of this column stems from my journey with authenticity and transparency. Upon deciding the name of my column, I brainstormed various ideas and revisited some of my past writings.
I stumbled upon a draft blog post titled “Being authentically human in a superficial world.” In this post, I shared my existential thoughts about human existence and how our choices, no matter how small and insignificant, ultimately shape the meaning we find in life. In addition, I discussed how my identities — disabled, Mexican, queer — have influenced the decisions I’ve made.
Being unapologetically yourself is a journey that takes time. Being your most authentic self requires self-awareness, courage, self-confidence, and the willingness to reject external expectations.
Authenticity and MS
I have been living with multiple sclerosis (MS) for about a decade. Managing life with a chronic illness has taught me the importance of honesty. Over the years, I’ve grown tired of pretending to be fine and putting on a facade for the sake of those around me. Living with MS has transformed me in ways I still don’t fully grasp, but I wouldn’t trade this journey for anything because it has shaped my identity.
Being authentic while living with MS involves embracing your true self and being transparent about your challenges, experiences, and emotions. We must honor our truths, embrace vulnerability, and make decisions that align with our values. Living authentically with a chronic illness is a complex and personal experience that looks different for each of us.
As American essayist Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest achievement.”
